So People ask me why I use the words Fat and Femme…..well let me explain. I used those terms in a way to describe something and to take back Power! For Example the word, “Fat”. I used it as an adjective to DESCRIBE how I am shaped. The word fat in the past was used to hurt me and to make me feel like shit. Well, I decided to not let it get to me and take back my power who used the word to make me feel less of a human being. “Fat” used to be a trigger word for me and I know it still for folx who are still dealing with the bullshit that comes with words. However, through therapy and some research using mindful mind dumping, I learned that it’s just a word and not to let it have power over me!

And as far as the word, “femme”, I rejected the meaning that makes people feel like shit and what SOCIETY deems the true meaning of what makes a person femme. For me, “femme” means anyone who identifies as female. Whether you are born female, Trans, butch, stud, Or non-binary. And race has nothing to do with being femme either.

This is why I wanted to PROVIDE a space like this so people can learn new tools on how to take care of themselves, give themselves some grace, learn spicy stuff that people feel that “fat” people should not know about, and provide spaces to explore their sensuality. So my workshop on June 1st is one way of PROVIDING something for my community and beyond. Well, I hope this answers folx questions about me and my workshop. You can find out more about the workshop and purchase tickets through this [link]https://forbiddentickets.com/events/msk/f8eaf7ceff