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First Toy review for us Fat Femmes

Hi! It’s MsK , your favorite Sex and Body Acceptance Coach from Deliciously Perverted.

Today I want to talk to you about one of my favorite things that I love to try……sex toys, especially with my husband. This particular toy is for external stimulation of the vulva and clit. You can also use this to stimulate the penile frenulum as well. This lovely toy is called Sapphire G and it is from Starship company,http://www.starship.com that is also sponsoring this review. They are a well-known Sex Health and Wellness company which is located in Georgia with 8 locations around the Atlanta area and one location in East Tennessee in East Ridge. They offer discreet packing, free shipping over $50.00, secure online ordering, and of course have high standards when it comes to your privacy. 

So let’s get to the nitty gritty about the Sapphire G. It is a Liquid Silicone Wand toy that comes in a black box. It is about the shape of my hand and it comes with a USB charger so you can make sure it is ready to go when you want to have a little self-pleasure on your own or with your lover. This can be used in and out of water which is a good thing in the shower when you have the house to yourself), 10 different speeds and also made of Silicone. The flat head of this wand is great for clitoral stimulation and for penile frenulum which is located in the front of the penis. 

With any other wands like this, I worried about whether a fat, femme like me would be able to hold it in a comfortable position for more than 5 minutes. I also worried that it may get me off sooner or take too long than I expected to get me off. This has been the case with a few toys in my past which upsets me because I wasted my money and time on something that is hard to maneuver with my hands, takes too long to quickly get me off and if it’s too clunky.  

Well the Sapphire G does not disappoint me at all. It is 6 inches long and takes up to 2 hours to charge. The Sapphire can hold its charge on a low setting 80 minutes on low speed or 50 minutes if you run it on the highest setting. It was easy to charge and I had lots of fun testing it out. I am going to be honest as someone who is going through Perimenopause, I have to be picky about sex toys in general, especially when I use them with water-based lube. So I decided to test this on my hubby first to see what his reaction would be and it be used on those with penises. From his reaction to the Sapphire G I would yes he really liked it. He described it as if a tongue was vibrations going up and down the front of his penis. He didn’t want me to stop using it on him. He especially loved it at higher speeds. We decided this would be a great toy for edging your partner. 

As for me I took things nice and slow while testing this baby out. I discovered it can be a little hard to maneuver at first if you were holding it with the flat part of it up against the vulva and it between my legs. So I turned the wand around and I was to access the button to turn it on and control the speed. This is a bonus if you have carpal tunnel or Arthritis like me.  With a silicone toy you think the grip would be slippery, but it wasn’t. Not even while using my favorite water-based lube on it. Also, with using it in the water, it is easier to use while taking a bath. However, if you are planning to try it in the shower, you may want to make sure you have something to lean on while using it. This will prevent you from slipping in the bathtub.

Overall, I really enjoy testing out The Sapphire G. It fits in the palm of my hand, can change the way you hold the wand to make it easier to use, feels nice, easy grip, great to use with my lube ( especially with water-based since you can not use it with any silicone lube), and you can use it on yourself as well with your penis. So I would definitely recommend this toy, especially for fat femmes out there. So I hope you can give it a try and have a little fun with you. And if you use my discount code, MSK2024, you can get a good discount off your purchase by going to http://www.starship.com. And as always stay safe, keep hydrated, live a delicious life and stay pervy

**Honoring the Fat, Loving, Sensual Body and treating it like a temple! **

I am offering a workshop that focuses on self-care, learning tools to quiet the critic inside of you, treating your body as a temple, and giving those who identify as Fat and Femme a safe place to explore their sensuality and to be sexy beings. Here is a description of what to expect below and what I will be teaching:

As Fat people, we deal with external and internal fatphobia that does not allow us to see that our bodies are not sacred or sensual and should be honored. Each Fat Femme(means anyone who identifies as female. Whether you are born female, Trans, butch, stud, Or non-binary. And race has nothing to do with being femme either) person, we deserve, yearn for, and needs a space to start that journey into honoring our bodies. Through this workshop, MsK will help each participant to ask themselves to let go and give themselves some graces for being Fat, self-care tools to care for themselves, develop affirmations to set the tone of honoring their Fat bodies, small movement to open up their body to feel more sensual vibe and to treat their beautiful fat body as a sacred temple.

A workshop led by MsK for those who identify as Fat and Femme to treat themselves better and like a temple. We will go over the following items during this workshop:

  • What does self-care look like for you
  • Tools to help with intrusive thoughts with some tools you can use
  • That our bodies are as sacred and sensual as anyone else and are temples
  • To learn different techniques on how to start your journey in being more present and
    treating it as a temple
  • How to sense your body’s needs and listen to it
  • That being Sensual is not a race and just be you!
  • Sex. What is it, how does it affect you as a Fat Femme and what steps in how to accept being a sexy being
  • And to give yourself some grace!!!!

There will be refreshments, goodie bags and a short fashion show at this event. You can purchase tickets thru this website: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/msk/2024-03-24-honoring-the-fat-loving-sensual-body-and-treating-it-like-a-temple. Tickets are $35 plus service fees.

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